thanks

Happy Thanksgiving. I am full of thanks today as I watch my two beautiful children. How lucky am I to be able to be a mother, especially the mother of Darla and Bennett. Every single day I am awed and amazed at these two little people. Darla is almost two - her personality ever so present and character so kind. The conversations that we have will be forever cherished. Bennett is growing, and learning - interacting with him is one of my favorite things. I love newborns. Why does that stage have to disappear?
I was talking to my sister the other day and she said how she loves that the world hasn't quite figured out how to commercialize Thanksgiving - meaning they go from Halloween straight to Christmas. Thinking about it, I'm not surprised. The world doesn't have time to slow down and give thanks - it goes from "where's the candy" to "give me presents". If only it would slow down and be grateful, just think what a difference that would make. May be then in those moments of thanksgiving all would notice that there is something greater. Someone who gives all. Someone who loves all. I'm grateful for that Someone because He has given me my life - my family.

My Darla Anne

I love this picture!

two little kids

I finally got up the courage to give Darla a little trim. I didn't know if it was going to be crazy to try and have her hold still. She held very still - considering she was glued to the Little Einstein's DVD.
Once again it's another weekend and I cannot believe it. I have decided that time disappears because the days and nights all run together right now. There was a day this week that suddenly turned into night and then the next thing I knew it was 7 AM and I was doing the dishes - had I slept? It was already morning? :)
These two little kids continue to teach me. This week my mom (an incredible mother) gave me a piece of advice that she received sometime in her life - treat your children like they are your best friend. For example you wouldn't get frustrated if your best friend was walking too slowly, you would most likely slow down to walk with them, or if your friend broke something, or got something dirty you would most likely react patiently and help them. Ever since she said this, I have been thinking about Darla and our interactions, about Bennett and our interactions. I hope I can apply this idea as I strive to raise my children with love and patience. There is much to learn. I love being a mom.

Happy Family

Bennett is two months old today. We had his doctors appointment and he is 13 lbs 13 oz, and 25 inches. He is our big boy. Both Erik and I have said today - that Darla grew up last night. There is something about her. I cannot believe I almost have a 2 year old.
Erik is busy with applications to PhD programs. I'm excited to see whether we are staying here, or taking off next summer. Honestly I hope we are staying here. Yes, the winters are long - but other than that we've loved it. That's about it for now - life is moving ever so quickly.

Bennett's Blessing

Another part of this past weekend was the blessing of our little Bennett. Erik's parents were able to be here which makes moments like these seem a bit more like home. We wish we could have been with all our family, but if anything we realize how blessed we are to have a great ward family and friends. Once again I have a baby in my arms so I'm keeping this short. What a brilliant life this is.

Down on the Farm

Happy Halloween! Personally I believe she made the cutest chicken ever. I am typing with my left hand while holding Bennett in my right arm - so I apologize that I'm not writing more. This weekend has been full of wonderful memories.